#amreading / #amwriting ~ No. 3

Welcome to my latest reading and writing exploits – including interesting blogs, books, news on social media, alongside my ongoing trials and tribulations as I attempt to write my first book.


I’ve been searching for some new authors recently. Inevitably there have been some fails, but I’ve also discovered some keepers.


Somewhere In Between by Samatha Harris – [FREE ON AMAZON WHEN I WROTE THIS!] I’m pretty sure this is her debut novel and when I say I’m impressed – I really am. I’m not usually a massive fan of the ‘friends to lovers‘ trope, but this really worked for me. Harris seamlessly moves from the past to the present to tell this story and it gives the reader such an amazing understanding of their relationship. I completely understood why they did what they did; there was no raised eyebrows or ‘really?‘ moments. The character development is second to none and I was rooting for them all the way. Did I mention this was free? Grab a copy right now, people – I don’t think you’ll regret it!

Sarah Mayberry – I picked up Bound To The Bachelor as a freebie. I’ve got to say the title isn’t one I would normally go for, but I’ve read some great things about this author, so I went ahead and read it. I’m really glad I did. I LOVE Mayberry’s writing style, her great dialogue, rounded characters, and a wonderful central love story. The title might be a little cliched but the story isn’t. There’s a fulfilling emotional depth to it and I really believed in the characters. I quickly read two other books by Mayberry: Almost A Bride and Make-Believe Wedding. Again, not books I’d normally go for, but I found them really enjoyable. I love romance novels but I really don’t need a wedding for my HEA, and I normally avoid these bride / wedding series; however, again, these books worked for me. The weddings are actually a really small part of them and the stories were great. All highly recommended, quality romance.

Around social media:

  • Jill Shalvis‘ new book Nobody But You was released this week. It’s next up on my Kindle and I can’t wait!
  • Heroes & Heartbreakers reviewed the first book in Robyn Carr’s new series – What We Find. I love her Virgin River series, the Thunder Point series not so much, but I’ll definitely be giving this new series set in Colorado a go. It’s due out April 5th.
  • I love to read good flash fiction – it’s short and satisfying. Here are Writer’s Digest’s top tips for writing flash fiction.
  • All About Romance Annual Reader Poll results are here. Some of my favourite authors are in there: Nalini Singh, Jill Shalis and Victoria Dahl. Take a look for some great reading recommendations.


The kids are off school for Easter, so work on my WIP is on the back burner at the moment. I’ve made some notes for the next section I’m going to write but that’s about it. It doesn’t feel good; my brain feels a little mushy and I’m antsy about getting stuck, but my head is so full of other things right now I can’t focus.


I have managed to write a couple of pieces of flash fiction though. One more and then I’ll start to publish them on here.

Take a deep breath, K…


#amreading / #amwriting ~ No. 2

Welcome to my latest reading and writing exploits – including interesting blogs, books, news on social media, alongside my ongoing trials and tribulations as I attempt to write my first book.


It was Mother’s Day recently and I got spoiled with Hotel Chocolat chocolates, a bottle of Prosecco and an Amazon voucher. Cue some serious time spent reading book blogs and reviews trying to find some new authors and books.

Here are some of the books I one-clicked:

  • Black Hills, by Nora Roberts – a really good romantic suspense story as well as a romance. Lil and Coop have history and she makes him work to get her back. She’s a strong, kick ass heroine and there’s some interesting stuff in there about cougars and big cats (Lil runs an animal refuge). Not one of Robert’s very best, but really enjoyable all the same.
  • How To Catch A Wild Viscount, by Tessa Dare (currently free on Amazon)  – my first novel by this author and I really enjoyed it. I don’t dip my toes into historical novels as much as I used to, but I really enjoyed her writing style in this novella. It reminded me a little of Lisa Kleypas – who I love. I’m going to check out Dare’s Spindle Cove series soon.
  • Almost Like Love, by Abigail Strom – I haven’t read anything by Strom in a while, but I LOVED this story; contemporary romance at it’s best. It’s funny and tender, sexy and geeky, with the best Dungeons and Dragons scene EVER! Honestly, it’s worth reading just for that. This book gave me the feels in all the right ways.

Around social media:

  • This great little post on The Pros and Cons of Plotters and Pantsers, from The Write Practice, gives the pros and cons around different planning approaches when writing.
  • This is a little out of date, but there is the sad news that Samhain Publishing are closing their doors. They have some great authors that they’ve worked with over the years. Potentially, this is a worrying reflection on the state of publishing today.
  • Stacey is SASSY, an excellent blog, reviewed Jill Shalvis’ latest Cedar Ridge novel – Nobody But You. I can’t wait for this book. I’m a die hard Jill Shalvis fan and Stacey’s fab review left me wanting more.
  • Follow Red Cheek Reads on Twitter – amongst other things, they tweet about free books and books on sale. I’ve picked up some great freebies over the last few weeks from their tweets.
  • A final treat, again from Twitter, is from @ForeverRomance – I love this quote!


  • #amreading #amwriting no 2 twitter quote forever romance


I wrote a piece of flash fiction this week. For those who don’t know, flash tends to be 1000 word or less. It’s a great way to exercise your writing muscles and it gives prospective readers a good idea what to expect from you. Ideally, I want to join an existing flash fiction meme, but I’m struggling to find one. I know there’s a hashtag on Twitter (#flashfiction) so maybe I’ll just do that or start my own. I’ll be posting soon, so if you’re interested look out for that.

I’m knee deep in my second draft of my romance novella and finding my way through the editing process. It started off well. I printed off my first draft and got out the old red pen to correct mistakes and move things around. I had a pretty clear idea of what I wanted to change. So I changed it, then realised that I needed to add quite a few more scenes and decided to develop a few ideas / characters. This rapidly devolved into an overwhelming feeling of it all getting out of control. This is a familiar feeling now so I kind of know how to handle it:

1) Panic 2) Sit with head in hands wondering what the hell I was thinking when I started this 3) Tell myself to get a grip 4) Make another cup of coffee 5) Pick up a pen and some paper and try and organise my scattered thoughts!

It took a few days, but I managed to come up with another plan (there’s that damn word again!) and I think I’m back on track now. I’m aiming to finish this second draft by the end of next week, before the kids break up for Easter and I lose my writing days to child care!

Wish me luck!



Making Notes: Writing Tip ~ No.1

writing pic for blog

To begin with I need to say that I’m no expert. These posts about writing are just me sharing what I’m learning along the way. If they’re helpful, great. If they’re not, ignore them!

A wise bird once told me “Always finish writing for the day with something left to write.”

It pains me to say it, but he (my partner) was right. It can be intimidating coming to your computer not knowing where you’re going with the story or what you’re going to write when you sit down. Do you need to go through your notes again? Re-read what you wrote yesterday? What do you have planned? What’s going on with your characters? If, like me, it’s easy to get put off and your heads spinning with a hundred and one things about your WIP, then maybe this writing tip will help.

It’s not rocket science but it works for me. For five minutes, before I finish writing each day, I type in red font at the end of my current draft, my ideas for the remainder of the scene – if I haven’t finished it – or the following scenes if I have.


screenshot for blog notes in red 

The notes are brief, but they give me direction the next time I sit down to write. I have a memory like a sieve, so I have to write down any ideas that I have. By doing this it saves me time when I start to write again.

As you can see the notes are very rough; I literally just type what I’m thinking with no thought to editing or embellishing them. I’m sure they don’t make sense to anyone but me!

Sometimes I have to finish writing abruptly, so I only get to write a sentence – but I ALWAYS write something. It’s one of my most ingrained writing habits now. It really works for me, because I know that when I sit down and open my computer, I’ll know exactly where to start. That is a big obstacle overcome straight away.

Jodi Picoult quote

Thanks for reading and happy writing!


That Illusive First Draft

Some days, when I’m staring at my computer screen and the words are stuck behind a very large and annoying mental barrier, I think – ‘there’s no way I’m ever going to finish this bloody story’. I’ll admit it – the air may even go a little blue at times! In the past when this has happened, I’ve left that story and gone on to start something else. There’s always another idea germinating – why not go and start that and see if that comes more easily?

The bottom line is – this is a total cop out. I know it, even while I’m doing it. I have come to realise that the most important thing I need to do is FINISH THE FIRST DRAFT!!!

Yes, capitals and exclamation marks are necessary because, ultimately, if I don’t finish the first draft there won’t be a story. I can’t edit and redraft and FINISH a story if I haven’t got the skeleton of a first draft.

first draft quote

This all sounds really easy in theory, but let me outline the obstacles to finishing the first draft:

  1. I can get bogged down in editing as I write. Some writers fire through their first draft and don’t worry about spelling mistakes, holes in their plot, or other general problems. It’s all about finishing it. After that, you can address those problems in the following drafts. I can’t do this. I’ve tried, but no, I can’t do it. So I’m constantly trying to restrain myself from editing as I write. I’m getting better at it but it’s a struggle. Maybe it’s an OCD tendency, or maybe I should be an editor instead of a writer? Either way, it’s a barrier to finishing that precious first draft.
  2. My planning or lack of it. I am naturally a panster (for more on pansters v plotters see here). This means I find planning hard and often plan as I’m writing, rather than beforehand, but this can also mean that my writing can grind to a halt if I don’t know where the story is going.
  3. I’m over complicating things. For example, I can get all twisted up in the thought process of my characters, or what’s driving them, their back-story, or how I’m building the tension between the characters. In short – the minute details. I’m trying to suspend the need for every single detail until the later drafts when I can layer in emotion and add more of everything. If I get stuck now, I’m trying to move on to the next bit instead of feeling despondent and giving up.
  4. Having more than one project on the go. Admittedly, sometimes this works well for me. I can write two projects concurrently when my productivity is high, but sometimes one project overrides the other and I end up dropping one. More often than not, I don’t pick it up again. I have decided to focus on one project at a time from now on.


first draft Hemingway quote

Clearly, every writer has different methods and goals. I think a really important aspect of writing is finding good habits and routines that work for you. I have read so many blogs and articles about the writing habits of famous authors – most with gentler advice than Hemingway! Some facets strike a chord, but, ultimately, it’s all about finding your own path and part of that is picking out the information that grabs your attention and piecing it all together to create a plan that works for you.

If, like me, you are finding your path through trial and error then good luck and please feel free to share how you manage to finish your first drafts!

Happy writing!





#amreading / #amwriting ~ No. 1

Welcome to my latest reading and writing exploits – including interesting blogs, books, news on social media, alongside my ongoing trials and tribulations as I attempt to write my first book.


I’ve been having a MASSIVE re-reading session of Nalini Singh’s Psy / Changling novels (see my blog on Nalini here). I’ve re-read the first ten books of the series, plus the collection of short stories (Cooper and Grace be still my beating heart!), over the past couple of weeks. It’s been a while since I read them the first time, so I’ve really enjoyed immersing myself in this world again from the beginning. It’s hard to pick out my favourites but the Alphas’ stories have to be top of the list. Lucas and Hawke are amazing characters and their mates are more than a match for them.

My favourite books are like a comfort blanket, one that I bring out when I need a specific emotional fix, but I also re-read when the current new books that I have on my kindle have proven a disappointment and unfortunately that’s the case at the moment. I’m hoping for better things soon.

Writer’s Digest is a veritable gold mine of information for writers. This post feels relevant to me at the moment: Self-Editing Advice: How to Tackle Character Consistency

Heroes and Heartbreakers is a brilliant blog for all things romance and I’ll be referencing it regularly because their posts are ace. This one caught my eye today and brings a new term to something that I love in my romance novels – the competence kink. 

On Twitter:

@TropeHero and @TropeHeroine are so worth a follow. Clever, funny and perfect for lovers of romance.

trope hero twitter pic


I’ve finished my first draft – yipee! I finished it a week ago actually but for one reason or another (half-term so kids at home / youngest was ill / I was sleep deprived) I’ve only just started to edit it. To be honest, taking the time away from it has been a good thing. The distance from it has made the story clearer to me in a way.

My first job when I begin editing is to layer emotion through the story showing the emotional development of my central character, Helena, but I’m mulling over adding a couple of scenes and keep having startling revelations about the detail – while I’m trying to get to sleep or washing up! The notes app on my phone is full of random, and not so random, thoughts that keep springing into my mind since I finished the first draft.

I edited the first ten pages today and it felt pretty good.

Any good book recommendations this week?


The Wonderful Worlds of Nalini Singh

I discovered Nalini Singh about 5 years ago when I got my first Kindle. She has 3 series on the go, The Guild Hunter (paranormal), Psy / Changeling (shifter / paranormal) and A Rock Kiss (contemporary romance). I started with The Guild Hunter series and never looked back. She’s an automatic buy for me now and one of my all time favourite authors.


I love her style of writing, her strong and tender heroes and unstoppable, likeable heroines. There are archangels, vampires, leopards and wolves (just to name a few) plus the intricate and fascinating world of the Psy. The books are so exciting and packed full of action, I can never put them down once I start one.

The worlds that she has created in her paranormal series are impressively detailed and how she keeps track of so many story lines is beyond me. But at the heart of every single book is a romance. Elena and Raphael, Dmitri and Honor (Guild Hunter) are some of my all time favourite characters and their stories are beautiful. I re-read several of her books on a regular basis.

I’ve recommended these books to a few people and they’re hooked just like I am – even my mother-in-law! (Hi Rita) So if you’re looking for some exciting series to get your reading chops into and you haven’t discovered Nalini Singh yet, now’s your chance. Her back catalogue is huge, the Psy / Changeling series alone has 21 books in it. The Guild Hunter series has 8 full length novels and 4 short story collections.


I really recommend you read the short stories too because they give you a real insight into the world and a host of characters. Plus it helps if you’ve read Ashwini and Janvier’s short story in Angels’ Pawn before their story in Archangel’s Shadows. Ashwini and Janvier’s story is amazing – one of the best in the series.

The Rock Kiss series are contemporary romances based around the members of a rock band, although my favourite book in the series is actually about one of the rock girlfriend’s best friend and her relationship with her CEO boss (Charlotte and Gabriel in Rock Hard). They’re hot and sexy and Nalini Singh writes contemporary as well as she writes paranormal, so it’s a win-win situation. There are currently 4 full length novels in this series.

rock hard cover

If you haven’t read any of these books yet then I’m actually a little envious because that means you’ve got loads of awesome books ahead of you. Here’s Nalini’s website where you can check out the series order and keep up with her latest news. She also has a great newsletter where you get lots of previews of what she’s writing and her insight into characters and where the stories are going http://nalinisingh.com/.

Happy reading!


Why Romance?

I have loved to read for as long as I can remember. I have vivid memories as a kid of the books that I read and how they made me feel. That was back in the days before Kindles and Amazon, ebooks and self-publishing. I read all my Mum’s Catherine Cookson books, then began to look further afield.

I had a library card and I wasn’t afraid to use it!

It was a rare day when I didn’t have my 10 book allocation piled up on the desk by my bed. Danielle Steel, Jilly Cooper, Jude Deveraux, Judith Krantz, LaVyrle Spencer, Barbara Delinsky, Susan Lewis to name just a few of the authors that I used to look out for. God, that list takes me back! The only author who I read anymore from that list is LaVyrle Spencer because Morning Glory is one of the best books I’ve ever read. But that’s not to take anything away from the pleasure I got from those books at the time.

I was transported from my little bedroom in suburban England, to London, New York, San Fransisco, rural America, China and beyond.


I watched love stories unfold and heartbreak strike and I lived through it all because I knew I was going to get a happy ending. Some people hate that; they laugh and smirk and patronise the romance genre because of it but that is exactly what I love. I want to know that the characters and their lives that I’m currently immersed in are going to be together when I close the book. There is enough crap in life, I don’t want to read about it all the time as well!

Reading for me is about escaping to another world, another set of people and familiar tropes and story lines. There’s comfort in familiarity and knowing that I’m going to get a HEA or a HFN – either one is ok to be honest.

Romance is about all the ways you can fall in love and all the ways that love can become difficult. I like strong, gutsy main characters and a rowdy, funny supporting cast. I want to care about the characters and route for their success and their happy ending. I like my romance sexy and hot. What’s all that flirting and sexual tension about if there’s no pay off?! Right?

When I find an author that I love, I’m loyal and read pretty much everything that they’ve written. If I pick up a book and it doesn’t grab me within the first ten pages, you’ve lost a reader for life. There are too many good books out there to waste time on rubbish books (of which there are unfortunately many).

My reading tastes have changed over the years but not the genre. I may dip my toe in a thriller every once in awhile, but I always go back to my first reading love. I’m fairly sure romance books are a borderline addiction for me and I’m ok with that. 

How about you?

Happy reading!